Proverbs 27:10-17
Q.1. How should we treat friends and family members? Why is a brother not always the most dependable? In what way does a wise son make his father glad? – (Prov.27:10-11)
Friends are to be respected, and friendships cultivated. Family members may drift apart, or even move distances away … do not go to your brother’s house in the day of your calamity; Better is a neighbour who is near than a brother far away (Prov.27:10). If people cannot find fault with you, they may focus on criticizing your children. Solomon charged his son – Be wise, my son, and make my heart glad (Prov.27:11). Unfortunately, Solomon’s son, Rehoboam, acted foolishly and managed to split the kingdom from which it never recovered (1 Kgs.12:1-19).
Q.2. When is it wise to take security? What was Solomon’s advice about warnings and flatterers? – (Prov.27:12-16)
We are wise to protect ourselves, and exercise caution in dealing with others – A prudent man sees evil and hides himself; The naive proceed and pay the penalty (Prov.27:12). It is therefore appropriate to take security or a pledge, in order to prevent losses. We should also avoid those who are quick to give their opinions. It is almost impossible to control those who are contentious, or those who talk incessantly.
Q.3. What is the benefit of an honest and transparent relationship? How can this apply to a mentoring relationship? – (Prov.27:17 c.f. Lk.6:40-45)
There is real benefit from honest nurturing interaction with others – Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another (Prov.27:17). This proverb has often been applied to the mentoring relationships which Jesus modelled for His followers – A pupil is not above his teacher; but everyone, after he has been fully trained, will be like his teacher (Lk.6:40).