Proverbs 25:8-20
Q.1. What advice did Solomon give about friendships and differences between neighbours? – (Prov.25:8-10)
It is better to avoid litigation in cases of conflict, since it can be risky and costly (see 1 Cor.6:1-6). It is better to seek to resolve conflict as privately as possible (see Mt.5:25-26; 18:15) We should be cautious about revealing the secrets of others. It is also wise to develop consideration and tolerance with our neighbours – By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue breaks the bone (Prov.25:15). The more we show grace to others, the more grace will be shown to us.
Q.2. How should we communicate with others? Why should we consider what we say before we speak? – (Prov.25:11-15)
It is better to say nothing if we can’t say something constructive. People respond well to encouragement but react to criticism. We should seek to be constructive, and resist a negative attitude, since such forbearance is more likely to be heeded.
Q.3. Why should we be cautious about interaction with neighbours? What attitude should we display toward others? – (Prov.25:16-20)
It is good to consider others and to display generosity. It is also wise to limit interaction with our neighbours because, when things deteriorate, we cannot escape their influence easily. We should also prefer to say nothing, rather than give a bad report or share the confidences of others.