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ADVICE IN OUR APPROACH TO OTHERS AND OURSELVES.

Proverbs 25:21-28

Q.1. How should we treat an enemy? What reason did the writer give for such an approach? – (Prov.25:21-22 c.f. Dt.23:5 & Mt.5:43-47; Rom.12:17-21)

The writer, under inspiration of God, challenged the natural reactions of aggrieved people. He advised – 21 If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink; 22 For you will pile burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you (Prov.25:21-22). God had thus protected Israel against her enemies (Dt.23:5). Moreover, He had commanded Israel, through His prophets, to treat their opponents with compassion. This would stave off His wrath (e.g. 2 Kgs.6:20-23; 2 Chr.28:9-15). Ultimately, judgment belongs to God. We must not conduct ourselves according to the ways of the world (Mt.5:43-47). God promised to reward those who follow the example of His Son in suffering. 

Q.2. What did the writer say about the negative use of the tongue? What is the impact of a positive message? – (Prov.25:23-25; Jms.3:9-10)

The tongue can be extremely destructive. To be easily able to talk, comes with a caution to not bite back, lest this brings an angry response. We need to choose our lifelong partners wisely, or life may be miserable. If we cannot give a positive report, it is probably better to not say anything. By contrast, good news is like a refreshing stream in a desert.

Q.3. What actions did Solomon condemn? Where should our focus be, in our relationships with others? – (Prov.25:26-28)

It is a massive cause of distress when those responsible to administer justice, compromise their integrity under pressure from the wicked – Like a trampled spring and a polluted well Is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked (Prov.25:26). It is also very off-putting when people maximise every opportunity to draw attention to their own accomplishments. Life is uncertain when we are tied to those who have no control over their passions. The blessings from God extend to those who place the interests of others before their own. It is a joy to come under the influence of such selfless people.