Proverbs 27:10-17
Q.1. How should we treat friends and family members? Why is a brother not always the most dependable? In what way does a wise son make his father glad? – (Prov.27:10-11)
Friends are to be respected, and friendships cultivated. Family members may drift apart or even move a long distance away – … do not go to your brother’s house in the day of your calamity; Better is a neighbour who is near than a brother far away (Prov.27:10). Solomon charged his son – Be wise, my son, and make my heart glad (Prov.27:11). Unfortunately, Solomon’s son, Rehoboam, acted foolishly and managed to split the kingdom from which it never recovered (see 1 Kgs.12:1-19).
Q.2. When is it wise to take security? What was Solomon’s advice about warnings and flatterers? – (Prov.27:12-16)
We are wise to protect ourselves, and exercise caution in dealing with others – A prudent man sees evil and hides himself; The naive proceed and pay the penalty (Prov.27:12). It is therefore appropriate to take security or a pledge, in order to prevent losses (see Prov.27:13). We should also avoid those who are quick to give their opinions. It is almost impossible to control those who are contentious, or those who talk incessantly (Prov.27:14-16).
Q.3. What is the benefit of an honest and transparent relationship? How can this apply to a mentoring relationship? – (Prov.27:17 c.f. Lk.6:40-45)
There is real benefit from honest nurturing interaction with others. this is captured in the Discipleship adage – Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another (Prov.27:17). This proverb has often been applied to mentoring relationships. Jesus captures the need for teachability for His followers – A pupil is not above his teacher; but everyone, after he has been fully trained, will be like his teacher (Lk.6:40).