Romans 12:9-21
Q.1. What qualities should characterize the relationships between members of Christ’s body? What actions should we avoid and what should we embrace? What place should we give to praying? – (Rom.12:9-13)
Love should characterize all our relationships. Paul explained how this works in practice, both positively and negatively – 9 Let love be the real thing. Shun what is evil; cling to what is good. 10 Be devoted to one another as brothers do; give preference to one another in honour (Rom.12:9-10). Believers are to be enthusiastic in their service, as well as generous and hospitable (Rom.12:11 &13). We should never give up, even in tribulation, but rather rejoice in the hope of glory. All of this should be undergirded with persistent prayer (Rom.12:12).
Q.2. How should we treat those outside the faith? What underlying attitude should we cultivate? Can we always be reconciled? Why should we avoid retaliation? – (Rom.12:14-21)
Paul also addressed how the believer is to live in a hostile world. We should return a blessing, even to those who persecute us (Rom.12:14 c.f. 1 Pet.3:8-9). We can build bridges by showing empathy to those around us, and by being willing to associate with those less fortunate, while maintaining an attitude of humility (Rom.12:15-16). Paul understood that it is not always possible to resolve every conflict, but exhorted us – if possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men (Rom.12:18). We should refuse to pay back evil for evil, but instead allow God Who is always just, to bring vengeance (Rom.12:17 & 19). We should always – … Respect what is right in the sight of all men (Rom.12:17). This includes ministering to our enemies, and not giving way to temptation. Rather – Do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good (Rom.12:21). Love will overcome many sins and conflicts.