Proverbs 26:20-28
Q.1. How can we protect ourselves against the wrongful use of the tongue? What damage can gossip and contention inflict? – (Prov.26:20-23)
If we are not legitimately part of a solution, we are to remain silent. If we are called to help resolve a conflict, we must aim for truth in grace, so that our words may bring a fair and honest conclusion. Refusing to gossip will reduce the heat of strife. Slander will have far-reaching repercussions. We must learn to discern deceit and get to the heart of a matter, rather than making surface judgments. The writer advised caution in all we say and hear (Eph.4:25, 29-32).Â
Q.2. Why should we be cautious about the words of the wicked? Will liars and deceivers always hold the upper hand? – (Prov.26:23-28 c.f. Mt.12:33-37)
We must discern what is behind words and deeds, because – 24 He who hates disguises it with his lips, but he lays up deceit in his heart. 25 When he speaks graciously, do not believe him, for there are seven abominations in his heart (Prov.26:24-25). Knowing that this may be the case will motivate us to consider all aspects of a situation. Solomon had seen it all. He concluded that sooner or later a person’s true motives will be revealed, and quite possibly he will fall in the trap he set for his victim (Prov.26:26-27). Nevertheless – A lying tongue hates those it crushes, and a flattering mouth works ruin (Prov.26:28). We need to take the flatterer’s speech with a grain of salt.